Why Are Children Afraid To Put Their Face in The Water?

The Faceless Water

So why Are Children Afraid To Put Their Face in The Water?

It's a question the occupies the mind of many a swim teacher and parents of a children learning to swim a lot.

Of course the question is not possible to answer succinctly because there are just too many factors that could contribute:

• A fright around water
• Parents afraid of the water
• Seeing something traumatic to do with water
• Something traumatic happen to them around water
• Fear passed on by siblings or close friends
• Another person's, well intentioned but misguided attempt to teach swimming

The list could just go on and on but frankly these are the exception not the rule.

By far and away the most common reason why children are afraid to put their face in the water is simple fear of the unknown.

There lack of experience in going under the water is the biggest factor for them being afraid to go under the water. So all a teacher has to do is make the unknown known to them.

Simple!

Of course it would be nice if it really were simple but fear is never simple.

But the good news is, that regardless of the reason children are afraid to put their face in the water, the method for getting them to become familiar or dealing with any other reason for their fear, is the same.

Introduce Submersion in Gradual Steps

You really can't do better than introducing a child to putting their face under water one small step at a time:

1. The chin
2. The mouth
3. Then tip of the nose
4. The whole nose
5. The eyes
6. The ears
7. The head

Some times however, if not all the time, it is a good idea to do some preparation, particularly if the fear is intense.

Over the years I have used a number of techniques for this:

• Underwater Viewer
• "Red" The Bear
• Face washing

You have to have patience, respect and care for those you are working with and sometimes that will require a lot more work and understanding

Of course sometimes it's not just fear. Sometimes the fear is combined with stubbornness and that is another set of procedures

So why are children afraid to put their face in the water? The answer is not straight forward but, however you handle it one thing is critical: you must be consistent.

You cannot help a child overcome their fear of putting their face in the water unless they trust you and trust is hard to gain and easy to lose. So please:

"Say What You Are Going To Do
and
Do What You Said You Would Do".

Don't ever try to tick children into putting their face in the water. It may work but one day it will backfire on you so bad that you will never forget it and the consequence for the child can be devastating. Don't do it.

Enjoy
   Richard